In love with a girl who don't even notice me

Same here. I call her my wife. *badump bump crash!*

Seriously though, if you care about her, then you need try your damnedest to get her to notice you. Of course that is easier said than done, but there are some things worth making the extra effort for. There are two possible outcomes: You get the girl, or you don't. You already don't have her, so the only real direction you can go is up. Love is worth the struggle. It is worth the pain and humiliation. It is worth living for, and dying for. No, I am not being overly dramatic. I truly believe those words.

I was (and still very much am) a social misfit. I have always had a difficult time with approaching women. I've fallen in love a few times, and have been burned in the process. However, I do not regret making the attempts. As humiliating and dejecting some of those rejections were, I look back now with a sense of pride for my courage at the time. Also, finding out immediately whether or not you have a chance at a relationship with a person closes that door, and allows you to move on a lot faster instead of always being left wondering.

So take the chance. Life is way too short. Love is beautiful.

This is all so true. There are a few things I've learned about love:

It comes when you least suspect it, often from places you never thought it would.
There will always be plenty of fish in the sea, yes, but there are always times when you don't want any others.
If this girl doesn't notice you, show her who you are. Just be friendly, let your personality shine and be yourself. It's the best thing you can do

I think another really important thing to remember about love and relationships, is that when you're initially into a person, all you know or see is the external, the persona they themselves put forth. Who they are inside could be completely different.

I think its more about you seeing what your mind makes up about that person. Who they are could be anything but what you think you see. Love is fucking blind. And you will be fucking people you think you love in total blindness if you don't watch out.

Is this the Emotrain?

In love with a girl who don't even notice me

Same here. I call her my wife. *badump bump crash!*

Seriously though, if you care about her, then you need try your damnedest to get her to notice you. Of course that is easier said than done, but there are some things worth making the extra effort for. There are two possible outcomes: You get the girl, or you don't. You already don't have her, so the only real direction you can go is up. Love is worth the struggle. It is worth the pain and humiliation. It is worth living for, and dying for. No, I am not being overly dramatic. I truly believe those words.

I was (and still very much am) a social misfit. I have always had a difficult time with approaching women. I've fallen in love a few times, and have been burned in the process. However, I do not regret making the attempts. As humiliating and dejecting some of those rejections were, I look back now with a sense of pride for my courage at the time. Also, finding out immediately whether or not you have a chance at a relationship with a person closes that door, and allows you to move on a lot faster instead of always being left wondering.

So take the chance. Life is way too short. Love is beautiful.

Thank you so much for that! Could't ask for a better reply.
You must be a great dad man.

[Octillus]

I think another really important thing to remember about love and relationships, is that when you're initially into a person, all you know or see is the external, the persona they themselves put forth. Who they are inside could be completely different.

I think its more about you seeing what your mind makes up about that person. Who they are could be anything but what you think you see. Love is fucking blind. And you will be fucking people you think you love in total blindness if you don't watch out.

Is this the Emotrain?

Well, yes, but that's also based on the external presentation one makes about themselves.

You must be a great dad man.

Now don't be making me cry. Thanks, bro.

You must be a great dad man.

Now don't be making me cry. Thanks, bro.

[JuZ]

AAAWWW!

For what it's worth, I also think there's been some excellent advice here. I fell in love a couple of times with girls that basically just didn't feel the same way.

It can be a very trying time in your life, but as everyone's saying you can only be yourself, and do your best to woo the hell out of them so they want to get to know you. If it works, awesome. And if it's not to be, find solace in the fact that they weren't for you and that you'll eventually meet the right person. It's a kick in the guts and there's no escaping that. But if they don't feel the same way, it's not going to be a worthwhile relationship anyway (although there are still potential benefits in the sort term *cough*). I met my wife when I least expected it and it was instant mutual attraction. Haven't looked back since. And if it can happen to a bozo like me, it can happen to anyone! Seriously... I'm rubbish at the whole "dating" thing and I've been married for five years now. WTF?

Yeah... friendzone. Been thar.

Fucking banks. I pay off my loan, and discover interest on the account a month later, and now I need to pay an additional payout figure just to be rid of the damn thing (and because it's Saturday, I have to wait til Monday to find out what it is). RETARDED!

ANOTHER old boy from my school died.
This guy was at a party in Thailand, his mates decided to go out swimming at midnight while off their faces, and next thing they know, he was face down in the water.
They revived him and got him to hospital, where he was going well. He was meant to be med-evaced over to Aus today, but he died beforehand.

RIP.

It's so good to hear that you and everyone else are alright! Is your friend ok? After disregarding everything SES have been saying about rooves blowing off?

The poor bananas! How am I going to survive without bananas?

Haha, yeah he's alright. Needs a good smack upside the head though, I can't believe he did that.
Went for a bit of a drive round the local area, we got off lightly. Trees and fallen powerlines everywhere. Didn't see any structural damage to anything though, except at a local primary school where their big outdoor tin-rooved thing covering the basketball courts got totally destroyed, and a couple of people's back fences have fallen. It'll take a long time to clean up, but at least it's only trees in the street and in people's yards as opposed to broken windows and damaged rooves and things.

I have a gut feeling that the Universe has decided to quit being a dick to Queensland now..
But hey, who knows. Deal with it if or when it comes, I guess.

About the bananas, I know! They're saying $15/kilo, it's insane. No more fruit salad for awhile, I guess.

Yep, I agree. Times are looking pretty damn tough here for us Queenslanders at the moment. I've had to bunker in with some of my relatives here in Cairns, although it really seems we've dodged the bullet here when the Cyclone hit. Most of the wreckage here is just from trees fallen over, gardens destroyed, fences crushed and the usual arguments with locals over whose house is damaged the most. I know I've got a lot of back yard mess to clean up and a bit of a fence to sort out but all is fine by me. Got the power back on friday so goodbye fustrating camping gear . Gotta admit, the little towns here and there really copped it with all the damage and what not.

But I think we've handled things well. If we can survive a Cat. 5 cyclone as well as the devastating one we had a few years back, I think we've pretty much done our job with survival here, for now.

The hard part now is I have to wake up from this mess and get back to work sometime next week

My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. Their relationship hadn't seen a good day in months, but today shit really hit the fan. Apparently he had hit her and called her names. I talked to her and tried to calm her down, but there's only so much you can do when you can't talk to someone face to face. Luckily she'll be spending the night at her parents house. I'm just relieved that she'll be safe and with her family.

I'm not a violent person by nature, but right now I just want to hit something. I'm really protective when it comes to my friends, and it kills me to hear stuff like this happening to them.

I think another really important thing to remember about love and relationships, is that when you're initially into a person, all you know or see is the external, the persona they themselves put forth. Who they are inside could be completely different.

I think its more about you seeing what your mind makes up about that person. Who they are could be anything but what you think you see. Love is fucking blind. And you will be fucking people you think you love in total blindness if you don't watch out.

Is this the Emotrain?

Well, yes, but that's also based on the external presentation one makes about themselves.

Is it too late to go back to college and take a class or two in English Grammar?

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I blew all my loan money on cocaine and apathy.

But honestly, yeah, my grammar has been taking a slide.

RIP Gary Moore

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